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Easing the pressure on loved ones through productive planning.

My Will Wishes book

Easing the pressure on loved ones through productive planning.

My Will Wishes is a thoughtful book designed to help you communicate your wishes and guide your loved ones through some of their hardest times.

My Will Wishes booklet

Welcome to My Will Wishes.

My Will Wishes aims to be one of the most constructive, personalized and cherished items you could possibly prepare. Hard as it may be to complete this book, it is one of the most considerate things you can do for those you love.

My Will Wishes is filled with prompts to get you thinking, once you have decided upon your wishes, start entering these into your booklet.

My Will Wishes also includes a blank section for your "Love letters left behind".

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Why "My Will Wishes"?

Have you ever had conversations with a friend and promised to leave them something of significance to them when you pass? Have you ever been to a funeral and felt that it wasn't what they would have wanted for their final celebration?

Does anyone really know your wishes for your belongings? Or your funeral plans?

As we know, death is inevitable and planning a funeral to honour someone you love, can often come with challenges and differing of opinions.

When you're gone, this book will allow you to communicate your wishes and guide your loved ones through some of their hardest times, making those impossible decisions a little clearer and a little easier.

It could be filled out weeks, years or decades before it's actually needed, but that's the thing about death, it can come without warning, leaving too much unsaid and undone. We often make the obvious decisions about our property, money and children in the event of our death, however there are so many other things that require decisions we often don't think about.

Do you have pets, what happens to them?

What happens to your treasured collections?

Where do you want to be laid to rest?

Are there people you'd prefer not attend your funeral?

Which lawyer holds a copy of your will?

What about your digital accounts and passwords?

The sheer number of decisions to be made after someone passes can be huge, add in the emotions and weight that grief brings, combine that with the differing views of family members, and it can be a recipe for disaster. My Will Wishes is one thing you can do to make life easier for those left behind, enabling them to mourn without added complications and honour you in the best way possible.

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My Will Wishes Booklet

A thoughtful, guided booklet to help you document your wishes and ease the pressure on your loved ones. Filled with prompts to get you thinking, plus a special section for your "Love Letters Left Behind".

  • Guided prompts for all your important decisions
  • Space for personal love letters to those you cherish
  • A meaningful gift for yourself or someone you love

NZ$29.95

+ shipping

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Anna Mellalieu, creator of My Will Wishes Book

Get to know the Creator

My name is Anna and I'm the creator of My Will Wishes.

After losing my father in 2015 I experienced a level of grief I'd never known before. There were certain things throughout the funeral process, that I knew went against what he would have wanted. I've heard an endless number of similar stories with some heartbreaking outcomes, and I'm sure you have too. This got me thinking, there had to be a way to remove some of the challenges associated when someone's life ends. I'm a firm believer that when it's your time to go, your wishes should be acknowledged, respected, and honored. And that's where My Will Wishes comes in, it was created to be your voice.

Your wishes.

I've been a business owner here in the beautiful Bay of Plenty since 2013. I work for a Not for Profit Organisation that is purely focused on helping our community, where I find ultimate fulfillment in making a difference. I have also recently gained my Diploma in Legal Executive Studies.

The people who know me best will tell you that I have a way of prompting (some would say challenging) conversations to get you thinking outside the box, and My Will Wishes does just that.

First and foremost, I am a Mother and DogMom to Nacho Girl (my beautiful Pomeranian). I'm a proud God Mama to many, and consider myself a professional bridesmaid (X5 to date). I am a fierce lover and supporter of my friends and family, I love a good wine and have trouble sitting still – I've been known to paint rooms, redecorate and complete criminal psychology papers when forced to stay home!

Thanks for checking out My Will Wishes, if I can help just one family fulfil their loved one's wishes in their time of need, then my goals and intentions whilst creating this book, have been achieved.

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Tauranga, New Zealand

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